{"id":2458,"date":"2025-03-01T15:13:31","date_gmt":"2025-03-01T15:13:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/inhealthyzone.com\/?p=2458"},"modified":"2025-03-01T15:13:31","modified_gmt":"2025-03-01T15:13:31","slug":"my-husband-refuses-to-let-my-mom-live-with-us-unless-she-pays-us-rent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/inhealthyzone.com\/?p=2458","title":{"rendered":"My Husband Refuses to Let My Mom Live With Us Unless She Pays Us Rent"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dad recently passed away, and mom feels very sad and lonely. To ease her pain, I suggested that she lives with us to be with her grandkids.<\/p>\n<p>My husband refused at first but then agreed on the condition that she pays us rent. I was furious, as we own the house and pay no rent.<\/p>\n<p>He smirked and declared, \u201cYour mother is a leech. Once she moves in with us, she will never leave.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/inhealthyzone.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Screenshot_891.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"704\" height=\"472\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2461\" srcset=\"https:\/\/inhealthyzone.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Screenshot_891.webp 704w, https:\/\/inhealthyzone.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Screenshot_891-300x201.webp 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 704px) 100vw, 704px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He added, \u201cShe will eat our food, use our electricity, and it just doesn\u2019t make sense for her to take advantage of it all for free. She needs to know that this house is not a hotel!\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/inhealthyzone.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Screenshot_892.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"717\" height=\"486\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2459\" srcset=\"https:\/\/inhealthyzone.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Screenshot_892.webp 717w, https:\/\/inhealthyzone.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Screenshot_892-300x203.webp 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 717px) 100vw, 717px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I was furious. Him and I have both have contributed to buying this house, and we have equal rights to it. I cannot just ask my mom to pay us money; that\u2019s senseless.<\/p>\n<p>That said, I have to admit that my husband is not a bad person. Him and mom just never got along. The other night he said to me, \u201cYour mother hated me ever since I met her. I wouldn\u2019t be comfortable with her living with me now.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/inhealthyzone.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Screenshot_893.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"727\" height=\"479\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2460\" srcset=\"https:\/\/inhealthyzone.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Screenshot_893.webp 727w, https:\/\/inhealthyzone.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/Screenshot_893-300x198.webp 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 727px) 100vw, 727px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I am torn between my husband and my mom who clearly needs her only daughter\u2019s help now. What should I do?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dad recently passed away, and mom feels very sad and lonely. To ease her pain, I suggested that she lives with us to be with her grandkids. My husband refused at first but then agreed on the condition that she pays us rent. I was furious, as we own the house and pay no rent. 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