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This cougar is sharpening her claws.<\/p>\n

After seven years spent dating dud dudes her own age, Hayli Hooper, 38, is setting her sights on fellas who are a little younger.<\/p>\n

\u201cGuys my age don\u2019t want anything fun,\u201d the part-time nurse and part-time stripper complained.<\/p>\n

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Hayli Hooper is giving up on men her age and sharpening her claws.
Jam Press\/@haylihooper<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

\u201cAll they want is some kind of stepmom for their kids. And they always bring along baggage from being with their ex-wives,\u201d she further moaned. \u201cMore often than not, though, they\u2019re so judgmental.\u201d<\/p>\n

Hooper thinks this makes men her age \u201cboring,\u201d although she admitted, \u201cI don\u2019t think they are really too keen on me, either.\u201d<\/p>\n

Enter men who are almost two decades her junior.<\/p>\n

\u201cI don\u2019t mean to date younger,\u201d she insisted, \u201cbut they approach me and I end up sleeping with them. Maybe it\u2019s the energy I give off.\u201d<\/p>\n

She shared that a 21-year-old saved up all his money so he could take her out to dinner, yet she\u2019s shamed for seeing younger men.<\/p>\n

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\u201cGuys my age don\u2019t want anything fun,\u201d Hooper, who works part-time as a nurse and part-time as a stripper, complained.
Jam Press\/@haylihooper<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s so common, though, for older men to be celebrated for dating younger. We don\u2019t ever talk about how there\u2019s so many women out there, too, that have already hit their sexual peak and men their age aren\u2019t interested,\u201d Hooper said.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s something I see so common with women my age these days \u2014 it\u2019s crazy. So we go for younger guys and we\u2019re usually slammed for it.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Hooper thinks this makes men her age \u201cboring,\u201d although she admitted, \u201cI don\u2019t think they are really too keen on me, either.\u201d
Jam Press\/@haylihooper<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Fortunately, Hooper has found fellow cougars who share her preference for fellas in their roaring 20s.<\/p>\n

\u201c[My friends and I] are all open and honest about our sexual experiences, so we pass on the boys once we\u2019re finished and give feedback. These guys love it,\u201d she revealed.<\/p>\n

However, the situation isn\u2019t helping her to settle down.<\/p>\n

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\u201cObviously, though, anything serious with them is off the cards,\u201d she admitted. \u201cYounger men are usually broke, so it can be a bit harder to explore anything further.<\/p>\n

\u201cBut they really do try so hard \u2014 and the sex is incredible. They\u2019re just willing to give anything a go, which I really admire.\u201d<\/p>\n

When Hooper does decide to search for a partner, she\u2019s \u201cgoing to be cutthroat.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI don\u2019t want to settle down with someone just for the sake of it. They\u2019ve got to be right for me, and agree with everything I\u2019m doing,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

\u201cFor now, I\u2019m having fun with lots of young guys and that\u2019s fine.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This cougar is sharpening her claws. After seven years spent dating dud dudes her own age, Hayli Hooper, 38, is setting her sights on fellas who are a little younger. \u201cGuys my age don\u2019t want anything fun,\u201d the part-time nurse and part-time stripper complained. \u201cAll they want is some kind of stepmom for their kids. 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